tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post1020866640335488710..comments2023-11-03T00:28:21.716-07:00Comments on Till My Dying Day: Is This How Divorces Are Made?Kemihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17872248415420381677noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-52978369117411712112011-06-24T09:03:59.064-07:002011-06-24T09:03:59.064-07:00tiffs make you stronger if dealt with well...tiffs make you stronger if dealt with well...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-63262275859416918062010-08-15T09:10:53.100-07:002010-08-15T09:10:53.100-07:00Lovely post.
You know the best desserts are not t...Lovely post. <br />You know the best desserts are not those that are sickeningly sweet...it's those that have a little sour or tart to balance out the sweet, a little spice to give the richness an edge...That's how marriage can be...bitter and sweet...complicated and simple. <br />Happy married life! Enjoy the tasting.Ekenehttp://www.lifelovefaith.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-73551797162975294282010-07-22T15:05:39.880-07:002010-07-22T15:05:39.880-07:00This is really helpful to read as it can be applie...This is really helpful to read as it can be applied to all relationships. All the best in ur marriage.NaijaScorpiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15375583469985472050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-75406517919174596542010-07-22T13:48:38.528-07:002010-07-22T13:48:38.528-07:00Great post. it reminds me of the quote "If we...Great post. it reminds me of the quote "If we desire to blossom like a rose in the garden, then we must learn the art of adjusting with the thorns".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-44160293939061096402010-07-22T07:47:37.521-07:002010-07-22T07:47:37.521-07:00Rita totally spoke my mind,when the facts change,u...Rita totally spoke my mind,when the facts change,u change your mind.The fact that the two of u hav 2different opinions doesnt make anyone wrong,it's cos u are 2different people with brains.Like i wrote in my last post,husby management isn't an easy task but we all learn everyday.<br />Might i add that i think the bible preaches that we should agree with our husby even when we are sure he's wrong,am guessing that's what submitting to his authority and been submissive is....i am yet to inculcate tihs rule in my life but i have a feeling life would be easier if only we married folks could and then in the grand scheme of things,if u win a fight/argument with the husby,who do u wanna celebrate with??best not to allow things blow up at all times jare..God help us allQMoneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01569868117819979932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-83138668536968399832010-07-21T18:56:02.449-07:002010-07-21T18:56:02.449-07:00I appreciate your honesty! I think it's the t...I appreciate your honesty! I think it's the tough times that help us realize that we ARE with who we married. Just being willing to muddle our way thru the tough stuff is part of growing our marriage's stability.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-8179561943305289862010-07-20T17:11:08.422-07:002010-07-20T17:11:08.422-07:00Awww....Dear,U r with the love of ur life
Wishing ...Awww....Dear,U r with the love of ur life<br />Wishing you guys decades upon decades of anniversaries to come in love and happiness and good health with kids and many more kids...<br /><br />Btw,TJ gats to go!!!<br /><br />www.seunbankole.comeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16750129304693966227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-71498079483476543272010-07-20T02:56:20.469-07:002010-07-20T02:56:20.469-07:00oops, missed @Amy in my last response. the last c...oops, missed @Amy in my last response. the last comment was directed at your comment. Wishing you peace and calm and joy in your last months as a single lady!Kemihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17872248415420381677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-38557170980906224152010-07-20T02:50:00.791-07:002010-07-20T02:50:00.791-07:00@Rita, thanks for your comments. Bo & I just ...@Rita, thanks for your comments. Bo & I just stay up real late until we're tired and then sleep in the same bed lol. But I understand exactly what you mean. It's part of the journey isn't it? Funny, I love him more now than I did even last week!<br /><br />@Niki, I know. I'm definitely going to be praying for his marriage. It's funny I never thought to do just that. Thanks.<br /><br />@Eve, thanks for stopping by! I'll continue to write so long as you continue to read, deal? :-)<br /><br />@Blowing, hey girl! that song just gets Bolaji going and I love it cuz he loves it so it's fun to dance to. thanks for reading my guest post i was honored to do it.<br /><br />@Myne, Amen to that!<br /><br />@YNC, thanks. I always say to anyone that asks and I mean it to the bottom of my heart, I'm very much enjoying marriage and being married. I say the key is having a good man u know, but i know you KNOW all about that ;-) In case i haven't said it recently you inspired me to start this blog!<br /><br />@silent - your man is probably saying the same thing and you guys will be making sweet music together in no time! :-) <br /><br />@we really don't see him that often anyway so we're pretty distant as is. Like someone else advised I think I'm just gonna really pray for him and his marriage. In the meantime we counter him quite well if i may say so myself. More and more HE's looking like a fool when he says random things like that.Kemihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17872248415420381677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-25369987716091234542010-07-19T18:03:33.614-07:002010-07-19T18:03:33.614-07:00I love how real you are and I appreciate you shari...I love how real you are and I appreciate you sharing your experiences with your blog followers! TJs of this world really can be a downer. How do you plan on dealing with his negativity in the future? Do you plan to tell him about himself or will you two distance yourself from him? On a completely different note I am soooo looking forward to your next post about future mini Kemi's and Bolaji's!Abby the Tiny Travelerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10593548023278893882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-51454802431755115212010-07-19T15:16:32.371-07:002010-07-19T15:16:32.371-07:00adorable! i love you guys
**Lord Jesus, can you pl...adorable! i love you guys<br />**Lord Jesus, can you please send my MAN to me? quickly?" <br /><br />aww.. dont worry, test come and go... you will PASS excellently!silent followernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-67250011294037389142010-07-19T14:14:45.836-07:002010-07-19T14:14:45.836-07:00lovely read. gives me hope and a newer perspectiv...lovely read. gives me hope and a newer perspective on marriage.YankeeNaijahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04949983781255650256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-61411803931794706802010-07-19T14:03:00.341-07:002010-07-19T14:03:00.341-07:00Rita has basically said what I wanted to add to yo...Rita has basically said what I wanted to add to your beautiful post.Thanks as always for sharing. And more marital activities for us all, lol...Mynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-68993855165743607682010-07-19T12:35:17.660-07:002010-07-19T12:35:17.660-07:00Aww! How beautiful...I like how u 2 deal with ur p...Aww! How beautiful...I like how u 2 deal with ur probs!<br /><br />Hiss at TJ, he's obviously unhappy!<br /><br />And I like tht Gyptain song too!!!!<br /><br />And I read ur post on ChiChi's blog, good job!<br /><br />lol @ marital activities!!!...sounds like fun!...lolBlessinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00063729360732047180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-49434638770666046672010-07-19T11:11:01.778-07:002010-07-19T11:11:01.778-07:00beautiful~
just came across your blog...had to cat...beautiful~<br />just came across your blog...had to catch up! <br />it's been inspirational ..keep wiriting :)Evehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18176409958176986755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-74497107392546886232010-07-19T10:59:25.252-07:002010-07-19T10:59:25.252-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Evehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18176409958176986755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-32457191163285824262010-07-19T10:00:02.543-07:002010-07-19T10:00:02.543-07:00awwwwww you guys seem so sweet.
I so agree with Ne...awwwwww you guys seem so sweet.<br />I so agree with New Life. PRAYER girl, prayer! <br />Maybe you and Bolaji should review your friendship with Mr TJ, yeah you guys have known him for a well, you say he's a cool dude but if being around him is going to hurt your marriage, you need to take precautions.<br />Pray for the poor fella as well, its obvious that he isn't happy in his marriage, so ask God to bring happiness into it. Ask God to use your marriage to help teach this poor guy a few things that he can hopefully take into his own marriage.Nikinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-69677413024105509982010-07-19T09:51:51.248-07:002010-07-19T09:51:51.248-07:00This is lovely, thanks so much for being open and ...This is lovely, thanks so much for being open and truthful.<br />During the time i dated my hubby, we NEVER had a disagreement. I felt that was how marriage was going to be. And then one day, about 8 months into our marriage (cos previously we were apart) we had an argument. The type of "I can't stay on the same bed with you tonight". I was shocked! At that point, I wanted to say I am not doing again. <br /><br />But marriage is beautiful. I have come to see that my husband and myself only disagree because we have different opinions which are not wrong, just different perspectives. I also realized that each argument is like an eroding agent, and if left unhandled, could cause so much damage. So if we ever have any conflict, we make out time to discuss it as soon as possible, make up and make sure we are not holding any grudges.<br /><br />Enjoy your beautiful marriage. You have a wonderful man.Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13202972020876371306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-47636244925055719992010-07-19T09:29:04.014-07:002010-07-19T09:29:04.014-07:00@doll, i agree!
@newlife - makes perfect sense, t...@doll, i agree!<br /><br />@newlife - makes perfect sense, thanks for your comments! I probably didn't explain it well but that is essentially what Bolaji said. Whenever he says anything we just counter it with what we believe for ourselves in our relationship and marriage. Don't worry we don't see him that often and he really has slowed down since he's seeing that his manifestations about marriage are not necessarily universal. I'll say though that I strongly believe that the ultimate power over our relationships lies within us, and not outside of us.Kemihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17872248415420381677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-81492521785012345492010-07-19T09:11:18.817-07:002010-07-19T09:11:18.817-07:00what a lovely post, the joys and sometimes pains o...what a lovely post, the joys and sometimes pains of marriage. I've got to say though, TJ has to step aside, words have power and please and please, don't take those negative things he's speaking into your life for granted, you have to counter them with God's spoken truths as soon as he says them and you and hubby work together to not allow him to speak negativity into your lives anymore.<br />You may not be as strong as you think, you may think it doesn't affect you now, but you never know on a day that you or Bolaji are vulnerable and you may think , maybe, just maybe TJ was right about one of those crazy sayings, that would all be the plot of the enemy. Hope this makes sense. God blessNewLifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15207557984532557915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-31832996679238676592010-07-19T09:01:10.490-07:002010-07-19T09:01:10.490-07:00aw...what perfect way to make upaw...what perfect way to make updoll (retired blogger)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04617294319074603189noreply@blogger.com