tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post9036585353882063918..comments2023-11-03T00:28:21.716-07:00Comments on Till My Dying Day: 11 Thoughts on the First Year of MarriageKemihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17872248415420381677noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-89435597384267124822011-07-02T17:00:22.707-07:002011-07-02T17:00:22.707-07:00To say that I didn't agree with every single t...To say that I didn't agree with every single thing u have mentioned on this blog would make me a liar... As in......(SPOT ON JARE... I feel u to the core and rawness of the bones lol).. <br /><br />On a serious note, I agree with each point.. (U see am not married yet, will soon be Amen.. speaking by faith.. All the points u have said is exactly what I have always felt with in.) I agree with number 1 till 11: I have always felt I would rather marry my best friend, the one I feel comfortable with and I am able to express myself without any need of hiding or any quams... 11: Important for all couples to define their own relationships because society talks utter nonsense and if care is nothing can have an effect on the marriage(abeg do u and as the spirit leads and from what I gather, u both know urselves very well. How cool is that..(hi five jare, it shows u both actually contribute in making ur relationship what it is today)...... <br /><br />Mehn all I have to say is I will have an awesome marriage... (Really Awesome one)...<br /><br />(I am so glad that God loves me so much and has taught me a lot.. I love him even more for you sharing this cos this is exactly what I have emulated in my relationship with the man of my dreams.. Awesome...<br /><br />Thanks for sharing.. <br /><br />My prayer for your relationship/marriage is that the Love of God will never depart from your home, the fact that Bolaji found u and made u his wife.. He will receive the blessings of Proverbs 18 vs 22: He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord... As in to find something good is not an easy job ohH... Besides that good thing(which is u) will be the best thing that has happened to him since accepting JESUS (As in he is enjoying ohh, no be small)...<br /><br />Not only has he found a good thing, he is now obtaining that favour from God and I know u will help him maintain, sustain, upgrade, even regenerate that favour always...<br /><br />And because God intention is for man to leave his family home and be joined with his wife.. Bo has fulfilled that promise and I pray that nothing, I repeat NOTHING UNDER THE WATCHFUL EYES OF OUR KING will bring u two apart..<br /><br />His blessings upon ur home will notonly remain stronger but will enrich ur genertaions, the ones around you, above u and the coming ones... <br /><br />God bless u you and Bless ur marriage.. AMEN..<br /><br />Abeg no vex for the long essay.. I got carried away (I can be so long sometimes.. lol)Daughter of Her Kinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-27282771984451073262011-05-31T05:32:53.386-07:002011-05-31T05:32:53.386-07:00@HoneyDame, thanks for your kind words. stay bles...@HoneyDame, thanks for your kind words. stay blessed.Kemihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17872248415420381677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-1411626477040155812011-05-05T22:10:16.828-07:002011-05-05T22:10:16.828-07:00Dont know how I missed this. This is such a..........Dont know how I missed this. This is such a........ piece. I love your down-to-earthedness. I can definitely cull one of two pieces of dvice from here. Thanks again.and congratulations in arrearsHoneyDamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06630155612892969091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-59258213630391856182011-04-27T06:39:11.328-07:002011-04-27T06:39:11.328-07:00@Nenyenwa, thanks for stopping by. I agree with y...@Nenyenwa, thanks for stopping by. I agree with you, these things DO go both ways.<br /><br />@Diamond, thanks for your wellwishes! I'm not saying solve the issue before you go to sleep. Nope. There are times that even changing into my pjs I'm grumbling and about to wring Bo's neck, however hard it is, I do think it is right to try and forgive yourself and the other person as you lay our head on that pillow. Tomorrow you'll have more time to iron out the issue. <br /><br />@P.E.T, thanks so much for your kind words. <br /><br />Thanks Faith! I'm so glad you agree with a lot of the points. i tried to do justice to the experience.<br /><br />@Fluffy, thanks!<br /><br />@am, thanks so much. I've never seen it like that but I thank God for all his blessings.<br /><br />@SisiYemmie, thanks! I was really moved by your post. Thanks for commenting.<br /><br />@oohjay, it is so important I tell you. A lot of people don't realise that unless you marry your best friend the whole thing will be a bit of drudgery I think. Bo is like my best friend that I get to sleep with sometimes, build a family with, and eventually when we're old and gray we would sit on that porch laughing about how silly it all was :-)<br /><br />@ilola, AMEN! Thanks for the prayer and well wishes.<br /><br />@gidibabe, thanks for spending your time on my blog and commenting! I pray that you will find that true love. It absolutely enriches your life significantly.<br /><br />@blessing, thanks so much for your well wishes and blessings. I pray even much more for you.<br /><br />@thanks Anon!<br /><br />@Edia, well, thanks for coming back and moreso coming back to my blog! AMEN to your prayer. Stay blessed XxxxKemihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17872248415420381677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-90054337963269608382011-04-26T13:55:19.716-07:002011-04-26T13:55:19.716-07:00Haven't been on blogspot or your blog in about...Haven't been on blogspot or your blog in about a year. Congratulations on your first year! Bookmarking this post for when my time comes. God bless and prosper your relationship xxxEdiahttp://loveronamission.tumblr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-8011164150757732472011-04-25T08:57:34.558-07:002011-04-25T08:57:34.558-07:00I'll drink to that toast! Congratulations :)I'll drink to that toast! Congratulations :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-79723770224939701602011-04-24T21:47:44.756-07:002011-04-24T21:47:44.756-07:00Awwww Kemi!!! Congrats sweetie! Wish you many more...Awwww Kemi!!! Congrats sweetie! Wish you many more, thank you so much for sharing what you've learned...ur filled with so much wisdom! God bless you and Bo!!!Blessinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00063729360732047180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-21346065749609562152011-04-23T08:15:10.680-07:002011-04-23T08:15:10.680-07:00amazing blog spent the whole of today reading up o...amazing blog spent the whole of today reading up on past post....cant wait to find that 1 person and experience all you have talked about. sigh love is beautifulgidibabenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-47464781084821193202011-04-22T04:50:29.840-07:002011-04-22T04:50:29.840-07:00Congratulations. I pray that as your marriage gets...Congratulations. I pray that as your marriage gets older, it gets sweeter.@ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-6172267649357577392011-04-21T10:34:11.490-07:002011-04-21T10:34:11.490-07:00I guess number one is the bedrock of everything.. ...I guess number one is the bedrock of everything.. being best friends... now taking notes...oojhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01018850371326891245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-63163135039084559422011-04-21T10:11:40.844-07:002011-04-21T10:11:40.844-07:00This post was such a blessing to me!!!!! wow!
www....This post was such a blessing to me!!!!! wow!<br />www.gistdotcom.blogspot.comSisi Yemmiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15350113579849499656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-85204952428465061452011-04-21T09:11:21.999-07:002011-04-21T09:11:21.999-07:00You are a quick learner - I think its something th...You are a quick learner - I think its something the Lord has blessed you with. Thanks for sharing.<br />PS - I love the toast!!!!amhttp://lifeofabrother-nylse.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-33486462899532680412011-04-21T06:08:39.829-07:002011-04-21T06:08:39.829-07:00Congrats!!!!! P.E.T took the words right out of my...Congrats!!!!! P.E.T took the words right out of my mouth!!Fluffycutethinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12668706331094379155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-46462232974575566712011-04-21T04:52:05.559-07:002011-04-21T04:52:05.559-07:00wow, i am blown away! this was so well written an...wow, i am blown away! this was so well written and i can't agree more! i was nodding my head while reading the whole post.<br /><br />congrats on your first year! may God continue to bless you and Bo with many, many more happy and loving years together!Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15614940560800247144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-2153466980743096622011-04-21T04:13:51.943-07:002011-04-21T04:13:51.943-07:00Congratulations on your anniversary.
You're su...Congratulations on your anniversary.<br />You're such an inspiration, the vital lessons from your relationship as written in this blog are eye-openers.<br />Thanks for sharingP.E.T. Projectshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06221822233883521488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-13968486017215706002011-04-21T04:10:27.595-07:002011-04-21T04:10:27.595-07:00A truly perfect toast...
#9 is so spot on! I reali...A truly perfect toast...<br />#9 is so spot on! I realized it a couple of years into my relationsip... your partner is your mirror... <br /><br />Not so sure I subscribe to not going to bed angry... sometimes that goodnight sleep may do just the trick... all the experts agree and disagree on this one...<br /><br />All in all... everyone needs God... <br />congratulations on your first year!DiAmOnD hawkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09877446485994929578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2289770347357861607.post-54077625483200763492011-04-21T04:06:52.859-07:002011-04-21T04:06:52.859-07:00Kemi congrats to u and Bo and after 3 yrs of marri...Kemi congrats to u and Bo and after 3 yrs of marriage I concur but the security and encouragement goes vice versa. My husband also loves the security that I am not going anywhere and I believe most husbands do. That is why many men do not look for that woman that slept around with everyone they know, they wld rather have the inexperienced, virgin sometimes partly because they hope it will never cross their minds to cheat. Not to say all men are this way, many men still choose the one who later changed. A lot of women also need their hubby's encouragement...I am a medical doctor with big dreams, one of them is helping the least fortunate by doing missions. Hubby is right behind me- he will often hear about some of them and throw it at me. I see my job as a calling from God almighty and explaining that too my husband and helping him understand it has helped him support me and he also feels like his calling is to the Navy and I will always be by his side. In essence, the role of a woman is both to provide that security, and encouragement and vice versa. Because just like he chose me, I also chose him. God bless you! and continue to grant you happiness in your marriage. :)Nenyenwahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04347409324890717028noreply@blogger.com