Monday, February 8, 2010

The New Mrs...Kinda

Monday, February 8, 2010
My engagement ceremony and the day itself was phenomenal.

Absolutely phenomenal. I don't know how else to describe it and trust me I've tried to describe to many people that asked and there are just no words, or not enough words. Magical comes to mind.

So as I've mentioned my boo and I live together. In preparation for the traditional ceremony we were supposed to have moved apart for about 3 months. That didn't happen. Then 2 weeks. That didn't happen. Then 1 week, and when that also didn't happen I just said forget it, I'll go stay at my hotel the day before the ceremony and that would be it. The hotel is close by my venue. Even this plan didn't work out. Bolaji took the day before the ceremony off work and was supposed to drop me off at the hotel in the morning, but I started to get jitters, and scared. If Bolaji dropped me off it would signify the beginning of this thing and I was just so scared. Ha! It took me by surprise actually, my jitters. So I ended up spending the day with my boo and he didn't drop me off till around 8pm! Before he dropped me off, we stopped over at Bolaji's parent's house and all his aunties and uncles were around so it was nice to meet them all that night.

I spent the night alone in my hotel room. The next morning around 6am, I got up, showered and tried to put my contact lenses in and they broke!!! For some reason, I was quite zen an calm about it. I called my sis to bring an extra pair, then called my eye doctor to ask what time her store would be open because it was nearby. At around 730am, the manicurist shows up and starts on the manicure/pedicure. She finishes by 830am and I take a 15min stroll to the eye clinic hoping that they had my prescription in stock, which heavens be praised, they did. Woohoo! All this while I'm still by myself so when I got back to my hotel room, I just sat down and relaxed. I didn't sleep, just sat and really took in the moment and the experience, I prayed and read the memory passage my mom had given me. Around 10am I call my makeup artist since she was supposed to meet me at 10 because my ceremony was scheduled to start by 11am. She tells me she thought our appointment was for 11 so she was just leaving her house!!! Again for some reason, I was just really calm and relaxed so I was just like okay, she should try and get here as soon as possible. I'm sure even she must have wondered what kind of easy bride was this :-) At 10:30am my Mom on her way to the venue stops by the hotel and was shocked that I wasn't even remotely ready! I just calm her down, told her she looked beeeeaaautiful (my mama looked so gorgeous!) and she was on her way. She and her sisters where going to the venue to pray. At this point I knew I was going to be late because once the bride's family is already there, then the ceremony will start, meanwhile I was still in my PJs without any makeup whatsover! My sister and one of my friends hitched a ride with my mother so they stayed behind at the hotel with me after my mom left. My makeup artist FINALLY arrived at 11am! I just rushed her in and started right away.

Everything was just so calm and peaceful and I will always cherish that. It was like the Holy Spirit was just moving around the place and working cuz it was just so peaceful. We finished around noon and by that time EVERYONE was already calling us to ask us where we were. Apparently while filling in time waiting for us to arrive they had asked Bolaji and his boys to dobale so many times! The minute I got out of the car I had to start dancing to the front. The kneeling and prayers and everything was easy peesy from there. No fuss, no strange happenings. It all went by pretty promptly and fast! I think by 3/4pm it was over and done with and the band began to play!!! There was sooo much food and so much to drink, and everyone looked happy and beautiful. There was a time I looked around the hall and took everything in and said a little thank You prayer to my God because he REALLY did it for me oh. I looked around and was so happy because everyone in that hall that day was a close family or friend. Bolaji and I really really prayed about this because we both don't like Nigerian ceremonies because we believe so many people show up that the couple don't even know or care about, and sometimes there's drama and all that but at this event? It was magical! It felt like a really intimate event. God really showed off for us!!! It was everything we wanted and prayed for.

By 7pm the hall was clear. Well, there were still a few die-hard uncles and aunties :-) Even my father-in-law who doesn't drink was having a glass or two of wine! I left to go back to my hotel room at 7:30pm and my husband left at around 9pm to come and meet me. From the time my husband walked into my room till about mid-afternoon the next day was the BEST time of my entire life. I think I've mentioned that we are celibate....well, we still are! But that night was just.......we were just so happy and in love. I am sooo soooo soooo happy. Like beaming happy. I love my boo so much, he's such a fantastic guy I can't believe I get to be married to him! We got so many messages that day and really we get it all the time that we are special couple, that whenever people see us, they see love and want to believe in love. Everyday I thank God for this. It is such a miracle because I found something special, someone special. We found each other. I am blessed.


21 comments:

From Now Till I Do said...

Congratulations Girl. Sounds like an amazing day! Thank God that everything went well. You must be so happy!

p.s. I know you don't do pics, but you could at least indulge us with one, maybe! :)

Kabi-Osi Edumare said...

Congrats love....Just wat i needed at the right time...May the good lord bless your union and uphold ur family.

Myne Whitman said...

I'm glad everything went calmly and as you'd prayed. and yeah some pics pls.

naijaprincess234 said...

Congrats...
may God prosper ur union..

yankeenaijababe said...

Congrats my sweet sister, God has done it again. I am tres happy for you. I have been missing in action from so many things, my poor backache and life in general. .I am so happy for you o. Can't wait for small pictures, put 1 for us to see o

Anonymous said...

Awwwwwwww congrats! This post is so happy, i'm smiling:):)

Miss M

Miss Natural said...

yay! congrats for a magical and beautiful day. May it set the pace for the rest of ur life together x

Kemi said...
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Kemi said...

thanks everyone for your comments and well-wishes AND your prayers! I am indeed so very happy and content. :-)

I want to put pictures trust me, but this blog is a "secret blog" (for what its worth lol) and i don't want to be found out and have to go back and delete some of the things i said about in-laws for example lol. I want this blog to be a honest one and not turn into a political/diplomatic one.

PLUS i don't really have any pictures, my mom made an error and hired two videographers instead of one of each! (i'm still zen see) I'm relying on other people to send me pictures.

Andrea said...

Congratulations.

beautiful said...

congratulations.......here's wishing you a lovely marriage filled with lotsa blessings and God's guidance and plenty plenty children. my friends always know whenever i finish reading any of your posts cos i'm always so relaxed and i have this dreamy gaze...thinkin of me D-day too...lol...congrats once again.

Anonymous said...

awwwww congrats! soo glad it all went well. this is just the beginning of many more special things to come! looking forward to the white wedding now right? take care.

Blowing Blessings Your Way said...

Oh wow!!!! Congrats!!! I'm soooooo happy that everything went well, thank God!

God is always on time! Can't wait to hear more good news...Stay Blessed, happy, and in LOVE!

Andrea said...

make sure you take pictures of the destination wedding..

Anoda Phase said...

great! thank God everything went well...congratulations to u n ur hubby!

Hadassah said...

Congratulations Kemi, I pray that the peace you're walking in now continue all the way to the destination wedding. It is well with you and hubby

~Sirius~ said...

Awwww
*how cute*
The heart really gets what it wishes for>
Congratulations on your union.
May it be the beginning of the best years of your lives together.

Good Naija Girl said...

What a beautiful entry! I think Bolaji is just as lucky to have found you as you are to have found him.

Did you share the story of how the two of you met?

Lady A said...

oh wow! You had me tear up there! This was awesome, but more importantly God is good! I pray for many many more blessing in the marriage for the both of you in Jesus name, Amen!

Jaycee said...

Awwwwwwww...congratulationsss...this is so beautiful.

angelsbeauty said...

awwwwwwwwwwwwww

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